守住她的生命
守住她的生命婚礼后,他和她商量去敦煌度蜜月。
一路上,俩人恩爱交织,狂喜窃笑皆成涟漪;夜宿边关望明月,晓闻羌笛报晓声,恨不得一生一世如此相守。胡天八月,风沙连翩,高大的他总是为瘦小的她举一把伞,怕她白皙的皮肤被强烈的紫外线晒伤,她一直是那么瘦。
跟着旅行团去楼兰遗址。夕阳刺眼如血,风干的石窟上百孔千疮,诉尽了沧桑,她不时被路边胡杨树上旋起的秃鹫吓得惊叫。导游笑着告诉大家,别害怕,那些飞禽只吃死尸。
夜了,汽车突然爆胎,众人只好弃车而行。她的脚崴了,他陪着她一步步慢行,渐渐地掉了队。他背起她,向着远方的灯火蹒跚而去。大漠的天气喜怒无常,转眼间刮起沙暴,他把她藏在背风处,用脊梁替她遮挡风沙。一切风平浪静后,他又背着她赶路。
她心疼他,要他歇歇。他笑了笑说不要紧,然后舔了舔干燥的嘴唇继续前行。他不敢停下来,因为他知道,刚才的沙暴,卷走了他们的背囊。他没有告诉她。
天亮了,远处的灯火逐渐消失。他还没找到路,她发现背囊丢了,顿时惊慌起来。他笑笑,摸着她的长发,说不要紧,有我呢。夜幕再次降临,他们筋疲力尽,却又望见远处的灯火。她走不动,他又将她背起,身后留下一个个深深的脚印。
第三天,他也没有了力气。她的眼神开始绝望,爬在他怀里哭。他好言相慰,抬头之间无意看到飞逝的流星划过夜空,心中有了答案。他计算好了一切,陪她说话,不再着急赶路。他知道,远方的灯火,只是天边的星光。他和她,早已经走进绝境。
白天,她渴得快要昏迷,肌肤上泛起一层层脱落的皮,泛着淡淡的红。他看着心疼,说我们不走了,很快会有人来的。伞早已经不见,他用双手撑地,将她放在自己的影子中,任凭阳光侵袭着后背。他一直这样的坚持,看到她憔悴的面容,干裂的嘴唇,落下泪来。一滴滴,都溅在她的唇间。而她,却已经不省人事。
他们失踪的第六天中午,营救小组望到沙漠深处的不时飞起几只秃鹫,他们心生疑窦,走近看时,便有几个人失声痛哭:他早已死去,却还保持着那种俯卧的姿势,双手深深插入沙里,后背被秃鹫啄得血肉模糊。而她完好无损的躺在他的影子里,宛若熟睡。
两个月后,她恢复健康,在他坟墓旁搭了间木屋,给他的墓旁种满植物,梧桐树、常青藤……一片稠绿如绘,浓郁的树阴遮住了墓碑。
她也要他,一生睡在自己播种的影子下,清凉如泪。 "just a few more minutes…please mommy!"
although my own children were grown, i found myself turning instinctively in the direction of the little voice. he was trailing after his mother, looking reluctantly over his shoulder at a display of remote control toys in the large department store.
he couldn't have been more than four years old. with chubby checks and wispy blond hair going in several directions, he trotted behind his mother down the main aisle of the department store. his boots caught my eye. they were green. really green. bright, shiny, kermit-the-frog, green. obviously new and a little too big, the boots stopped just below his knees leaving a hint of dimpled legs disappearing into rumpled shorts. perfect boots for the rainy transition from summer to fall.
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he stopped abruptly at a display of full-length mirrors, lifting one foot at a time, grinning and admiring his boots until his mother called for him to catch up to her. dressed in a suit, heels clicking on the tile floor, she was tossing items into her cart as she and her son made their way to the checkout lanes at the front of the store.
i smiled at the picture he made clumping noisily behind his mother. i found myself wondering if she had just picked him up from daycare after a busy day in an office somewhere. i sighed as i selected an item and put it in my own cart. my days of trying to juggle a full time job and two small children had been busy, sometimes even hectic, but i missed them.
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finishing my own shopping, i forgot about the little boy and his mother until i stepped outside the store. there a panorama unfolded before me. the rain had slowed to a drizzle, perforating the numerous puddles in the parking lot. several mothers with their small children were hurrying in and out of the department store. the children were, of course, making beelines to the puddles that dotted their way from the cars to the store's entrance. the mothers were right behind them, scolding.
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"what's the matter with you? are you deaf? i said, get out of that puddle!"
and so it continued. the children were being pulled away from the puddles and hurried along. all except for one…the little green-booted boy.
he and his mother were not rushing anywhere. the boy was happily splashing away in the largest puddle in the parking lot, oblivious to the rain and to the people coming and going. his wispy hair was plastered to his head and a huge smile was plastered on his face. and his mother? she put up her umbrella, adjusted her packages and waited. not scolding, not rushing. just watching.
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as she fished her car keys out of her purse, the boy, hearing the familiar jingling, paused in mid-splash and looked up.
"just a few more minutes? please mommy?" he begged.
she hesitated, and then she smiled at him.
"okay!" she responded and adjusted her packages again.
by the time i got to my car, loaded my packages and was ready to ease out of my parking space, the green-booted boy and his mother were walking toward their car, smiling and talking.
how much time did that "few more minutes" take out of her day? probably about five. not so much time out of a busy day. so what if she got home a little later than she had planned?
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what a contrast the boy and his mother were to the other families i had just seen. what volumes that "few more minutes" spoke to that little boy about his value to his mother. nothing in her universe was so pressing that it couldn't wait a few more minutes to let her young son try out his new boots-an important event in the life of how many times had my children begged for "just a few more minutes"? had i smiled and waited like the mother of the green booted boy? or had i scolded?
just a few more minutes. everything i have read about time management for working mothers can be summed up in one picture. the picture of that young mother standing under her umbrella, arms full of packages, smiling her assent to a wet, green-booted boy who had asked her the universal time management question for working mothers everywhere,
"just a few more minutes?" 余敏洪励志演讲
人的生活方式有两种,第一种是像草一样活着。你尽管活着,每年还在成长,但是你毕竟是一颗草;你吸收雨
露阳光,但是长不大。人们可以踩过你,人们不会因为你的痛苦而产生痛苦;人们不会因为你被踩了,而来怜
悯你,因为人们本身就没看到你。所以,我们每一个人都应该像树一样成长。即使我们现在什么都不是,但是
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当一个人为别人活着的时候,就非常麻烦。因为别人的标准是不一样的,没有坚持了自己的追求而想要的
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凡是想要一下子把一件事情干成的人,就算他干成这件事情,他也没有基础,因为等于是在沙滩上造的房
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当你决定了一辈子干什么以后,你就要坚定不移地干下去,就不要随便地换。你可以像一条河流一样,越
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我们未来生活的一种重要能力,叫做忍辱负重的能力。很多社会名流会遇到很多很多你不能忍受的事情,
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时间和空间。轮到我们自己的生命,要想为一个伟大的目标而奋斗的时候,你排除也得必须排除,你生命中一
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不管我们是什么年龄,我们哪能做一时气不过的事情。这个世界上让你气不过的事情太多了,只有你气得
过的时候,这个世界才在你面前才能展开最光辉的一面。
我有这么一个比喻,每一条河流都有自己不同的生命曲线。长江和黄河的曲线,是绝对不一样的。但是每
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千万记住一点,做任何事情的时间都是能挤出来的。
伟大与平凡的不同之处,一个平凡的人每天过着琐碎的生活,但是他把琐碎堆砌出来,还是一堆琐碎的生
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我的核心价值观就是,以善为生,用善良的心态来对待自己的生命和别人的生命。
有两句话我是比较欣赏的。生命是一种过程;事业一种结果。
我们每一个人是活在每一天的,假如说你每一天不高兴,你把所有的每一天都组合起来,就是你一辈子不
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矿泉水瓶灌了一瓶水。大家知道黄河水特别的浑,后来我就放在路边,大概有一个小时左右。让我非常吃惊的
发现,四分之三已经变成了非常清澈的一瓶水,而只有四分之一呢,是沉淀下来的泥沙。假如说我们把这瓶水
,清水部分比喻我们的幸福和快乐,而把那个浑浊的那个沉淀的泥沙,比喻我们痛苦的话,你就明白了;当你
摇晃一下以后,你的生命中整个充满的是浑浊,也就是充满的都是痛苦和烦恼。但是当你把心静下来的以后,
尽管泥沙总的份量一点都没有减少,但是它沉淀在你的心中,因为你的心比较沉静,所以就再也不会被搅和起
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指头伸出来的时候,它是五个手指头,但是当你把五个手指头握起来的时候,它是一个拳头。未来除了是你自
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